Varaxis
Well-Known Member
"Hold my beer."
Famous words before something eventful happens.
"No more Mr. Nice Guy."
"Win at all costs."
Famous words before someone throws away their humanity.
What is humanity, in terms of the qualities that make humans uniquely human? Does it include human "weaknesses", such as fear and irrationality? Is it what makes one hesitate before doing something such as causing damage to others, something the opposite of being kind? I believe it does.
What is causing such qualities to be lost, or thrown away? Can they be regained? Are they related to taboos that must not be broken, hence why some take great effort to shelter those they care about from such? That the world out there is full of threats to their innocence, and their grasp is no longer hiding in the shadows but out in popular spots?
I believe that there are personal mental barriers that discourage wrong-doing; once these are broken once, there's no longer much resistance to repeat such wrong-doing. For instance, once someone is known for breaking oaths, how redeemable do you think they are? Once a liar, thief, or cheat, always a liar, thief, or cheat?
I am interested in the various trains of thought that lead to breaking such personal mental barriers.
Justice? "He's not going to get away with this." I've witnessed passive-aggressive revenge, in which people were happy to make others lose, so they aren't suffering miserably themselves, accepting a lose-lose scenario, throwing away a stable life.
Security? Paranoia and over-reacting seems to contribute to a person's level of crazy (AKA insecurity).
Ego? Does not wanting to look bad really matter that much to some people? Difficulty admitting guilt and personal responsibility for failure and loss, to the point you rather not make an attempt to make a first step to even set progressive improvement? Blame it on others?
I'm sure prejudice/bigotry, and reductive thinking (oversimplifying) fits in this somehow, at least through correlation. People just don't seemingly make effort to appreciate details that make things unique with potential for good. They just seemingly reluctantly wait for such details to reach them if they coincide/agree with their current beliefs. Complacency and ignorance as well...
If you were told not to give up your humanity, how would you interpret that, and how would you act on it? What would you look to improve? What do you see as humanity that you threw away?
I'm in the position where I feel that the world is being left in my hands, yet not much effort was made to ensure that it's being left in good hands. I look around, and feel that no commoners are trying to shoulder any burden, acting on their freedom to be irresponsible, as typical consumers. I once pondered what makes a person perfect, and rather than think of God-like traits, I thought more along the lines of being harmonious with the situation and environment, adapting and promoting a healthy and sustainable stability. I suppose I'm making this thread to find some firm ground to stand on. I would be grateful to those willing to share their time and wisdom. I believe that I don't have any solid principles to go off of really, besides what discipline I gained in the military, such as the core values of the USAF. Give it to me frankly, without the political correctness, what's wrong with people and how did it go wrong? Political talk welcome.
If this thread strikes you as one written by someone who needs professional mental health check-ups, I might agree. I just feel that as an alternative perspective, I might just be a neglected kid who seemingly didn't have anyone to take them under their wing, looking to bloom under some real people with experience, rather than fantasy writings. My father died recently, and it wasn't until he did that I feel like a loss of something greater than a mere life. Chatting about the Kobe thing probably spurred this on, regarding how insensitive some people can be, me included.
Famous words before something eventful happens.
"No more Mr. Nice Guy."
"Win at all costs."
Famous words before someone throws away their humanity.
What is humanity, in terms of the qualities that make humans uniquely human? Does it include human "weaknesses", such as fear and irrationality? Is it what makes one hesitate before doing something such as causing damage to others, something the opposite of being kind? I believe it does.
What is causing such qualities to be lost, or thrown away? Can they be regained? Are they related to taboos that must not be broken, hence why some take great effort to shelter those they care about from such? That the world out there is full of threats to their innocence, and their grasp is no longer hiding in the shadows but out in popular spots?
I believe that there are personal mental barriers that discourage wrong-doing; once these are broken once, there's no longer much resistance to repeat such wrong-doing. For instance, once someone is known for breaking oaths, how redeemable do you think they are? Once a liar, thief, or cheat, always a liar, thief, or cheat?
I am interested in the various trains of thought that lead to breaking such personal mental barriers.
Justice? "He's not going to get away with this." I've witnessed passive-aggressive revenge, in which people were happy to make others lose, so they aren't suffering miserably themselves, accepting a lose-lose scenario, throwing away a stable life.
Security? Paranoia and over-reacting seems to contribute to a person's level of crazy (AKA insecurity).
Ego? Does not wanting to look bad really matter that much to some people? Difficulty admitting guilt and personal responsibility for failure and loss, to the point you rather not make an attempt to make a first step to even set progressive improvement? Blame it on others?
I'm sure prejudice/bigotry, and reductive thinking (oversimplifying) fits in this somehow, at least through correlation. People just don't seemingly make effort to appreciate details that make things unique with potential for good. They just seemingly reluctantly wait for such details to reach them if they coincide/agree with their current beliefs. Complacency and ignorance as well...
If you were told not to give up your humanity, how would you interpret that, and how would you act on it? What would you look to improve? What do you see as humanity that you threw away?
I'm in the position where I feel that the world is being left in my hands, yet not much effort was made to ensure that it's being left in good hands. I look around, and feel that no commoners are trying to shoulder any burden, acting on their freedom to be irresponsible, as typical consumers. I once pondered what makes a person perfect, and rather than think of God-like traits, I thought more along the lines of being harmonious with the situation and environment, adapting and promoting a healthy and sustainable stability. I suppose I'm making this thread to find some firm ground to stand on. I would be grateful to those willing to share their time and wisdom. I believe that I don't have any solid principles to go off of really, besides what discipline I gained in the military, such as the core values of the USAF. Give it to me frankly, without the political correctness, what's wrong with people and how did it go wrong? Political talk welcome.
If this thread strikes you as one written by someone who needs professional mental health check-ups, I might agree. I just feel that as an alternative perspective, I might just be a neglected kid who seemingly didn't have anyone to take them under their wing, looking to bloom under some real people with experience, rather than fantasy writings. My father died recently, and it wasn't until he did that I feel like a loss of something greater than a mere life. Chatting about the Kobe thing probably spurred this on, regarding how insensitive some people can be, me included.
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